Black Friday didn’t even have the courtesy to wait until the end of November this year. Doorbuster ads started rolling out before we’d even polished off the last of the Halloween candy.

Once again, Thanksgiving seems to have gotten trampled in our full court press toward Christmas. Parking lots are already full. Stores are crowded. The wish lists are endless.

Kids sit on Santa’s knee and rattle off a litany of what they hope to find under the tree. Some seem demanding and ungrateful. But even the ones who remember to say please and thank you remain focused on their own pleasure. Here’s the list of what I want. What I need. What will make me happy.

As distasteful as this sense of entitlement is, if I’m being honest, I can see myself in the way those children approach Jolly Old Saint Nick. Because I sometimes approach my Maker in prayer with that same selfish attitude.

I have an easier time asking God to supply my needs than thanking Him for what He’s already provided. Yet God calls me to cultivate an attitude of gratitude that goes far beyond a generic “We thank Thee for Thy bountiful blessings.”

We should be as specific in communicating appreciation as we are in making requests. Need inspiration? Here are six categories to get you started. And, since I love acrostics, the categories spell out T-H-A-N-K-S, to make them easy to remember:

T = Trials

It’s natural to thank God when life is going well. But what if things turn south? What if you’re dealing with a wayward child, with job insecurity or with some other circumstance that fills you with dread? What then?

Such situations may tempt us to worry or despair, but God has outlined a better way of dealing with trials:

“Consider it all joy when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.” (James 1:2)

Clearly, God wants us to thank Him, even in the midst of hardship. We should thank Him for His purposes in sending such trials our way. Thank Him for his faithfulness to walk by our side in the midst of them. Thank Him for what He plans to accomplish through them.

We should thank him for His unchanging goodness, His unfailing grace, His empowering strength and His trustworthy promise to use even difficulties for our growth and His glory.

H = Health

Reflect with me for a moment. Take a deep breath. Flex your fingers. Do your eyes work well enough to read the words on this page? Is your brain lucid enough to understand them?

Were you strong enough to get out of bed this morning and walk to the kitchen for a cup of coffee? Did you stop off at the bathroom on your way? When’s the last time you thanked God that your kidneys and GI tract are working properly? When’s the last time you expressed gratitude that your brain and lungs and legs are functional? Such graces are things many of us take for granted.

If you are presently struggling with health issues, go back to the first point and thank God in the midst of that trial. But if you aren’t, show some appreciation and thank God for the blessing of good health.

A = Abilities

Are you a great cook? A talented musician? An inspiring teacher? Good with your hands? Strong in math? Have an eye for decorating?

Are you a natural athlete? A wise leader? A good encourager? Has God given you the gift of service? A heart of compassion? A way with words? An artistic bent? The mind of a programmer? An incredible voice? A discerning spirit? A photographic memory?

Did you know that every unique skill, talent and aptitude you have comes from God?

“For who makes you different from anyone else? What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?” (1 Corinthians 4:7)

Make a list of all your various strengths and abilities. Thank God for each of these gifts and brainstorm ways you can use them for His glory rather than your own.

N = Neighbors

When I say you should thank God for your neighbors, I don’t just mean the people who live next door. “Neighbors” include people much closer than that: The family members who share your table, the spouse who shares your bed, the parents and siblings who share your DNA.

But, as Jesus’s parable of the good Samaritan proves, “neighbors” also refer to people much further away. People on the other side of the tracks or on the opposite side of the globe. People across town, across the country and across the political aisle.

If you enjoy close, mutually encouraging relationships with the neighbors God has given you, give thanks for that fact.

If your relationship with some of your neighbors is strained or antagonistic, go back to the first point and thank God in the midst of that struggle, too.

Either way, pray for your neighbors. Thank God for putting them in your life. Ask Him to help you treat them as you’d want to be treated (Matthew 7:12) and to love your neighbors as you love yourself, just as He commanded. (Galatians 5:14)

K = Kindnesses

We should also be thankful for all the many kindnesses we receive, both from God and from our fellow man. Pray that God will open your eyes to His daily mercies and to the thoughtful actions of others. Fresh air. Warm sunshine. An open door. A friendly smile. A steady arm.

Kindness begets kindness. So if you have trouble spotting much kindness in your community, take every opportunity to sow some yourself. Offer an word of comfort. Voice an earnest prayer. Send an encouraging note. Leave a generous tip. Give the signaling car space to change lanes in heavy traffic.

And thank God for the opportunity to be the change you want to see in the world around you.

S = Salvation

Last, but certainly not least, we need to thank God for the gift of salvation and forgiveness He freely offers to all who call upon His name and repent of their sins.

Of course, that’s assuming you’ve accepted this gift. If not, there will never be a better time to do so than right now, this very minute.

The Bible tells us, “If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord and believe in your heart God has raised him from the dead, you shall be saved.” (Romans 10:9-10)

Truly, salvation is God’s greatest and most unfathomable gift of all. It would be a pity to miss that one, above all others.

Jennifer Flanders is working to cultivate “an attitude of gratitude” not only in her own heart, but also in the hearts of her children. For free printable resources that can help you do the same, please visit her blog

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